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A little about me
Posted by Joey Gueez
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10:53 PM
So these past 3 years have been very interesting when it comes to my dating life. I never seem to have a problem meeting women and getting them interested in me. I take pride in that fact that i know how to treat a girl and that i know that if it doesn't work out, It's had nothing to do with my effort and care. If i look at my resume on my dating life, it's something im proud of, because they are long lasting relationships, some ended in pure heart break and some ended ok. There was just one were i may have broken a heart, but hey I'm not perfect.
The last 3 years have been filled with up and down's when it comes to women in my life. I've stopped putting 100% effort into them and i've chose a lot of things over them which in the end lead to break up's. I never blamed them for the break up's and i took sole responsibility for it. I have always said that looks don't matter and that being picky isn't right. Well i have know come to find that my biggest problem with these previous relationships were, because i was physically attracted to them and i ignored the stuff i didn't like about them. The ones i really liked/loved and lasted longer, Were the ones that i was attracted to them and loved a lot of things about them. The brutal truth of it all is that being attracted to the other person physically and emotionally makes a BIG difference. It's seems to be easier to fall in love with someone you believe ie precous and beautiful. You NEED that challange to keep you on your heals and WANT to put in that 100% effort.
When it comes to likes/dislikes, You really have to like what she does, what she's interestes and most of all she's got to understand & WANT to be involved in the things you like. They say that opposite's attract, but i think theres a fine line in that message. When opposites attract, that allows both parties to learn new things and get involved into things they haven' t tried before. Sometimes, Those things are beyond your interest and you don't want to be involved in those things. I think it's better to have more things in common, then to have opposite likes/dislikes. I want the girl to enjoy watching a movie or even the hockey game. I'd love for her to wanna be outdoors and be active. I'd also love for her to want to meet my friends, but also want to spend time alone.
There's one thing i DO NOT want and that's for her to like Video games. This may see shocking, But video games are my escape from the world. When i play them, it's to relieve stress and any problems on my mind. That's not the onyl reason though. I have a passion for games and it's something me and ALL my friends have in common. If i let her get involved in my passion of games it could ruin it all. When you date someone, you create memories and emotions follow those memories. FOR EXAMPLE: When your dating someone you like/love and you do things with them, those things remind you of them. Like listening to a band during the relationship or when you guys are together these songs also play, Well if we break up that pretty much puts a damper on that album and it's gotta be put away for a long time. Well this goes the same for games. I'm not saying i don't want her to like games, I want her to accept them and make initative to want to join in. I just don't want her it for me.
There is someone new and right now i don't want a gf, But i will take this one slow and be friends until fate takes it's course.
The last 3 years have been filled with up and down's when it comes to women in my life. I've stopped putting 100% effort into them and i've chose a lot of things over them which in the end lead to break up's. I never blamed them for the break up's and i took sole responsibility for it. I have always said that looks don't matter and that being picky isn't right. Well i have know come to find that my biggest problem with these previous relationships were, because i was physically attracted to them and i ignored the stuff i didn't like about them. The ones i really liked/loved and lasted longer, Were the ones that i was attracted to them and loved a lot of things about them. The brutal truth of it all is that being attracted to the other person physically and emotionally makes a BIG difference. It's seems to be easier to fall in love with someone you believe ie precous and beautiful. You NEED that challange to keep you on your heals and WANT to put in that 100% effort.
When it comes to likes/dislikes, You really have to like what she does, what she's interestes and most of all she's got to understand & WANT to be involved in the things you like. They say that opposite's attract, but i think theres a fine line in that message. When opposites attract, that allows both parties to learn new things and get involved into things they haven' t tried before. Sometimes, Those things are beyond your interest and you don't want to be involved in those things. I think it's better to have more things in common, then to have opposite likes/dislikes. I want the girl to enjoy watching a movie or even the hockey game. I'd love for her to wanna be outdoors and be active. I'd also love for her to want to meet my friends, but also want to spend time alone.
There's one thing i DO NOT want and that's for her to like Video games. This may see shocking, But video games are my escape from the world. When i play them, it's to relieve stress and any problems on my mind. That's not the onyl reason though. I have a passion for games and it's something me and ALL my friends have in common. If i let her get involved in my passion of games it could ruin it all. When you date someone, you create memories and emotions follow those memories. FOR EXAMPLE: When your dating someone you like/love and you do things with them, those things remind you of them. Like listening to a band during the relationship or when you guys are together these songs also play, Well if we break up that pretty much puts a damper on that album and it's gotta be put away for a long time. Well this goes the same for games. I'm not saying i don't want her to like games, I want her to accept them and make initative to want to join in. I just don't want her it for me.
There is someone new and right now i don't want a gf, But i will take this one slow and be friends until fate takes it's course.
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